I promise I have not forgotten about you!  It is just that Ben and I are trying to get down to our dating weight, and so I have not done much fancy cooking lately.  We did indulge last night but we decided to too late and so we just ended up grilling up some steaks and baking some frozen waffle fries.  Ben has absolutely perfected the grilling of  a steak.  So much so, that if we go out I rarely order one.  If I do I am usually disappointed because Ben’s are so good!  By the way, Ben has already reached his dating weight.  I still have a ways to go.